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A brief history update - I fell in love too young, 20 and far too easily, I got knocked up with a man, X who could never really support me or a baby. We never lived a life that I am happy to tell my child, C about. We faught and he drank. More than a little in both cases! He saw many women while we were together, one in particular who he returned too. Eventually, he traded me in for a younger model. Since then I have travelled, finished school and I have got a good job with flexibility, I have spent time with my C, I have became a better mother. I have sorted my life out. I have set in motion a positive future.

Goal 1 - The first goal for this positive future. I would like to find a man, who can support me. I have had not attention from the opposite sex for a long time, throughout my teenage years I always had to encourage men. This may have been why I was so ready to accept X. I haven't done well with men to be honest. I have went over this with my girl friends, we have a checklist (I'll post this later) and my climbing back on the horse has started, I have become an ad on a web dating site.